James Coleman
HUMA1100
REFLECTION
Ekaterina Malygina
HUMA1100
Refection
Some of the skills that I have improved on is that I have to treat everyone with kindness and respect. I tend to forget sometimes that it is not only me who has it hard in this world. Other people might be going through something much worse than me, so I need to keep that in mind and try to treat everyone with kindness doesn’t matter who my mom, friends, or others who surround me in this world. If I treat everyone with respect people will treat me the same and help me go through my hard times. I think some of the important topic not covered in this class is depression and how people go about life with that. With school and having so many students in the class I think it is very important to talk about that because probably so many students go through it all the time. That’s why I posted the definition of love project and what love means to me. I know this paper talks about romantic love but there are some really good points about self-love. You need to love and appreciate yourself before you can go out into the world and do the same for other people.
PROJECT
Ekaterina Malygina
Humanities 1100
Professor Wilson
6 December 2018
Love Theme Writing Assignment
Romantic love we hear about it and see the perception of it all the time and everywhere. We see movies, different religions, and media tells us all the right love is. Especially right now around the holidays we look for and want love even though we don’t really need it but the way it is advertised during this time we need to have someone by our side. In my opinion romantic love is not something to show off it is something private that you have between you and someone very special to you.
These days we have media and the religion tell us how the right love should look like. In movies girls always get the happy ending that they are looking for and the perfect prince or a multi billionaire with mommy issues. In real life it doesn’t happen this way maybe it does but there is always some type of error. As well as certain religions make people follow certain love rules. Which I think is very wrong because it is part of being human and you can’t put rules on romantic love or just love in general.
Religion could be very cruel to love and sometimes there is nothing that you can do about it. I have experienced that on my own terms and I learned that you can’t change something that has been there since the beginning of time. I was dating the perfect Muslim guy but that was in the beginning of the relationship. I knew he was Muslim and what that could mean for our future, but we never really talked about it and just ignored the fact that in the future we were never going to be together. For us the present is what mattered the most because we were young and in love. As the time went by he met my parent and my entire family, and he never even talked about me meeting his mom. So, that made me wonder and think about this even more it was not settling in my head. After a while he told me that his mom was already looking for the perfect Muslim girls for him and trying to set him up with someone else. It broke my heart, but I knew that if we stop seeing each other right now it will be for the better for the both od us. As you can see region is cool and everything, but it can be very cruel about the things that matter to us the most.
First of all, romantic love is something that you share with someone that you truly care about and hold very close to you. If you have sex with someone you found at the bar or at a party and even though it could have been very passionate, but it doesn’t mean it is romantic love. You might feel the love for them during the intercourse, but it goes away and just becomes a hook up after a while. Romantic love is with the person that you continue to see and continue to love and think about and care all the time. You learn what that other person likes, and the intercourse become even better each time and because it is so good you have that sexual desire for each other when you see one another.
Romantic love is when you think about each other all the time maybe in sexual way, but it is just a simple thought as well that is not sexual at all. You go the mall for instance and you find something that reminds you of the other half and you remember all the good things and makes you almost smile in public because of how good it is. You want to be always with that one person even its just the simple things like staying in at home and watching movies. You make every moment count and don’t want to let go of it. That person makes you safe and a little bit dangerous at the same time. In other words, they make you alive and like a human again. With that you as well always wish them well even if it is through a text or coming to see them. The little things matter.
Respect and trust is also very important in a romantic relationship. If you do not have respect for one another there could not be any romantic love or love in general. You need to trust one another so you can fully let go and be one with the person you love. That person needs to help you forget all your worries even just for a little bit and let the love be the only thing that matters. In any love there always comes jealousy there is good jealousy and the bad jealousy that’s why trust is very important in this kind of situations. With trust in your romantic relationship jealousy can turn into loving someone even more and appreciating that they are with you. As well as it can turn into more romantic passionate love which is good for both parties involved. When jealousy comes into romantic love with no trust and respect it ruins everything.
At last that’s why I think it is very important to keep all your romantic relationships private and just between the other person that you love and care about. If something good happens to you don’t go out and shout that to the world don’t let everyone know that you have something good because there will always be people who would want to ruin that for you. As humans we do come with love, but we come with jealousy as well. So, don’t go telling everyone what you do with the person that you love because no one else is involved what you do
In the end romantic love is very important to everyone because we are humans and we did come with loving emotions. You need a lot of factors to keep the romantic love like respect and trust. Without those simple things true romantic love cannot exist. There will always be many obstacles, but it is all worth it in the end.
Ekaterina Malygina
HUMA1100
Refection
Some of the skills that I have improved on is that I have to treat everyone with kindness and respect. I tend to forget sometimes that it is not only me who has it hard in this world. Other people might be going through something much worse than me, so I need to keep that in mind and try to treat everyone with kindness doesn’t matter who my mom, friends, or others who surround me in this world. If I treat everyone with respect people will treat me the same and help me go through my hard times. I think some of the important topic not covered in this class is depression and how people go about life with that. With school and having so many students in the class I think it is very important to talk about that because probably so many students go through it all the time. That’s why I posted the definition of love project and what love means to me. I know this paper talks about romantic love but there are some really good points about self-love. You need to love and appreciate yourself before you can go out into the world and do the same for other people.
PROJECT
Ekaterina Malygina
Humanities 1100
Professor Wilson
6 December 2018
Love Theme Writing Assignment
Romantic love we hear about it and see the perception of it all the time and everywhere. We see movies, different religions, and media tells us all the right love is. Especially right now around the holidays we look for and want love even though we don’t really need it but the way it is advertised during this time we need to have someone by our side. In my opinion romantic love is not something to show off it is something private that you have between you and someone very special to you.
These days we have media and the religion tell us how the right love should look like. In movies girls always get the happy ending that they are looking for and the perfect prince or a multi billionaire with mommy issues. In real life it doesn’t happen this way maybe it does but there is always some type of error. As well as certain religions make people follow certain love rules. Which I think is very wrong because it is part of being human and you can’t put rules on romantic love or just love in general.
Religion could be very cruel to love and sometimes there is nothing that you can do about it. I have experienced that on my own terms and I learned that you can’t change something that has been there since the beginning of time. I was dating the perfect Muslim guy but that was in the beginning of the relationship. I knew he was Muslim and what that could mean for our future, but we never really talked about it and just ignored the fact that in the future we were never going to be together. For us the present is what mattered the most because we were young and in love. As the time went by he met my parent and my entire family, and he never even talked about me meeting his mom. So, that made me wonder and think about this even more it was not settling in my head. After a while he told me that his mom was already looking for the perfect Muslim girls for him and trying to set him up with someone else. It broke my heart, but I knew that if we stop seeing each other right now it will be for the better for the both od us. As you can see region is cool and everything, but it can be very cruel about the things that matter to us the most.
First of all, romantic love is something that you share with someone that you truly care about and hold very close to you. If you have sex with someone you found at the bar or at a party and even though it could have been very passionate, but it doesn’t mean it is romantic love. You might feel the love for them during the intercourse, but it goes away and just becomes a hook up after a while. Romantic love is with the person that you continue to see and continue to love and think about and care all the time. You learn what that other person likes, and the intercourse become even better each time and because it is so good you have that sexual desire for each other when you see one another.
Romantic love is when you think about each other all the time maybe in sexual way, but it is just a simple thought as well that is not sexual at all. You go the mall for instance and you find something that reminds you of the other half and you remember all the good things and makes you almost smile in public because of how good it is. You want to be always with that one person even its just the simple things like staying in at home and watching movies. You make every moment count and don’t want to let go of it. That person makes you safe and a little bit dangerous at the same time. In other words, they make you alive and like a human again. With that you as well always wish them well even if it is through a text or coming to see them. The little things matter.
Respect and trust is also very important in a romantic relationship. If you do not have respect for one another there could not be any romantic love or love in general. You need to trust one another so you can fully let go and be one with the person you love. That person needs to help you forget all your worries even just for a little bit and let the love be the only thing that matters. In any love there always comes jealousy there is good jealousy and the bad jealousy that’s why trust is very important in this kind of situations. With trust in your romantic relationship jealousy can turn into loving someone even more and appreciating that they are with you. As well as it can turn into more romantic passionate love which is good for both parties involved. When jealousy comes into romantic love with no trust and respect it ruins everything.
At last that’s why I think it is very important to keep all your romantic relationships private and just between the other person that you love and care about. If something good happens to you don’t go out and shout that to the world don’t let everyone know that you have something good because there will always be people who would want to ruin that for you. As humans we do come with love, but we come with jealousy as well. So, don’t go telling everyone what you do with the person that you love because no one else is involved what you do
In the end romantic love is very important to everyone because we are humans and we did come with loving emotions. You need a lot of factors to keep the romantic love like respect and trust. Without those simple things true romantic love cannot exist. There will always be many obstacles, but it is all worth it in the end.